मैत्री
maitrī
Friendliness: a wish for the good of every being, with no hatred, that does not depend on liking or disliking.
Maitri means friendliness toward all beings: a true wish for their good. In the Gita it comes in the portrait of the devotee in chapter 12. One who hates no being is a friend to all and is also compassionate (Gita 12.13). The verse has the word in the form "maitra".
Friendliness is the warm side of having no hatred. Where hatred remains, friendliness cannot stand, so the list begins with freedom from hatred and friendliness follows. In chapter 11 as well, the one who reaches the Lord is the one without enmity toward any being (Gita 11.55).
Friendliness and evenness of mind go together. Friendliness belongs to the will: wishing every being well. Evenness belongs to the mind: the scales of liking and disliking do not tip. So a person who is equal toward friend and foe can still be a friend to all.
Common misreading: that friendliness means close friendship with everyone, or agreeing with everything they say.
Better sense: a wish for everyone's good that grows when hatred dissolves. It does not need closeness.
The whole passage is in The Devotee Dear to the Lord.
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- Equal in Joy and Pain, Equal to All: Will the Even Mind Go Numb? A Close Reading of Gita 2.14-15, 2.38, 5.18-20, 6.7-9
- Gita 12.13-20: The Devotee Dear to the Lord, a Close Reading
- Gita Chapter 12, Read Closely: Four Places Where It Seems to Pull Two Ways
- गीता 12.13-20 की व्याख्या: भगवान को प्रिय भक्त का चित्र, और 'प्रिय' का अर्थ HI
- गीता अध्याय 12 की बारीकियाँ: जहाँ अध्याय दो तरफ़ खिंचता लगता है और जवाब कहाँ है HI
- गीता में समत्व: सम रहने वाला सुन्न क्यों नहीं होता (2.14-15, 5.18-20, 6.7-9) HI